Everything you ever wanted to know about flirting, dating, and talking to people

Flirtology is a science-based method of teaching flirting and interaction. Using scientific research, and proven techniques, I help women and men become more socially confident. Do you want to become a Fearless Flirter? Welcome to Flirtology!

Why Your Partner Criteria is All Wrong

You are on a first date: how do you know if the person sitting across from you is going to be your next Mr. or Ms. Right? If you are the woman I met on Saturday night, you will make him skip. She tells me, 'This shows that he is up for a laugh’. She then added, ‘Oh, don’t worry. I always go...

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Don't Like Your Results? Try Something Different

Still doing the same ol' things, but expecting different results? Let me tell you about Julia. Julia has a date. With a cute boy. Whom she likes a lot. Do you want one of those? Then do what Julia did. Or, rather, do what Julia did differently then what she would have normally done. Julia...

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The Most Important Thing - That You're Not Doing

Why don’t we ever say anything to Shelia in accounting when she, continually, pilfers our favourite pens? Nor do we say anything to our friend Brian, when he assumes that we will pick up the tab...again? Why don’t tell our parents that we’d love for them to come and stay with us, but not for...

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How Can you Tell When Someone is Flirting - Video

Hey lovely flirters! Today I wanted to share with you a clip that I made with my lovely intern, Miles. Please forgive us, as the sound quality isn't the best. However, you will find the people I interviewed, and their flirting advice, is of the highest quality! I must admit, I also did a...

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Ask One Question - Then Decide

What is the first thing that happens after deciding that you ‘like’ someone? Whether it’s someone whom you already know or someone you’ve just spotted, after adding the like label, does everything just become easy? With a relaxed confidence, do you stride over and immediately introduce...

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How to Make Flirting Easier

A few weeks ago, someone from the Flirtology community wrote to me asking for advice. He wrote, 'I would like to learn anything that will help me to feel more confident and less self-conscious and, generally, to enjoy flirting and dating more.' I think it's fair to say that if you are...

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How to Turn a One-Off Meeting into Romance

It's always interesting to find out how people have learnt about the Fearless Flirting Tours. The answers are always one of the following: word of mouth, they saw me in the media, or Google. My how times have changed; when I created the tours, 12 years ago, no one would have thought of...

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The Surprising Reason you are Still Single

I have been wanting to write about this topic for awhile. So, thank you, Jennifer, for spurring me along. Just a warning, today's post contains a few hard truths. Jennifer* (Not her real name) wrote to me confused about why she was still single. She told me she was 'well acquainted in the art...

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How to get someone to like you

There is a big misconception on how to get people to like you. The fact is, trying to get people to like you is a long, laborious, and ineffectual task. It doesn't work like that. Do you want to know what does work? Liking others! As Dale Carnegie says, 'You can make more friends in two...

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