How to Talk to Strangers in 21 Days
This unique online course helps you build confidence, approach strangers, and meet more people
Let's face it. We have connectivity but what we are really looking for is connection. But how do we do that?
By having little interactions in our day to day lives. These help to build a sense of community and make us feel more connected. This unique online dating course helps you build confidence, approach strangers and meet more people, and broaden your dating potential for future romance.
This course offers tips and tricks on how to have interactions with strangers. It's so much easier than you think. You just need practice and someone to guide you through it. That's what we will do together.
Your Instructor
Social & Cultural Anthropologist, Jean Smith, has appeared on TV, radio and in print commenting on topics ranging from dating, flirting and relationships, to wider social issues. Jean is a Tedx Speaker, and very popular on the London speaking circuit. She has spoken everywhere from the Royal Society of Medicine to the Royal Festival Hall. She also gives talks internationally, most recently in Singapore and Kuala Lumpur. Her television appearances include BBC Breakfast, Daybreak and ITV’s London Tonight. Print media appearances include The Telegraph, The Daily Mail, and Grazia. She has also been featured in a segment on BBC Radio 4’s Woman’s hour on The Science of Flirting.
This course concentrates less on attraction, flirtation, finding a partner, and more on making connections in daily life and how to speak to people.
People want to know ‘how to make a good impression’ at a meeting or social gathering. Really, what they want, is to be comfortable showing people who they are. If people would spend less time trying to be something they are not as a way of manipulating others to like them and, instead, be completely comfortable with who they are, and leave others to take it or leave it, they will find they will have better outcomes.
"The work I’ve been doing with you: practising speaking with strangers, people watching, and the mindfulness has really paid off. Flirting is almost embarrassingly easy now. I can’t believe that I ever thought talking to people was hard. Thank you, Jean!"
- Simon
Course Curriculum
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StartIntro
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StartDay 1 Getting The Conversation Started- Part 1
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StartDay 2 Getting the Conversation Started- Part 2
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StartDay 3 Me-Centred Universe
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StartDay 4 Body Language
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StartDay 5 Reading People
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StartDay 6 How to Make Others Feel Special
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StartDay 7 Arrive Early
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StartDay 8 Stand on your own two feet
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StartDay 9 Centre of Attention or Just the Room
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StartDay 10 Socialising and Circulating
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StartDay 11 Where to Position Yourself
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StartDay 12 Be Comfortable
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StartDay 13 Avoiding Mindless Small Talk
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StartDay 14 On the Street (1:33)
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StartDay 15 At the Supermarket
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StartDay 16 At the Bar
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StartDay 17 Chatting to Groups
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StartDay 18 Talking to Someone in a Group
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StartDay 19 Leaving a Conversation Easily
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StartDay 20 The Graceful Exit
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StartDay 21 The Most Important Point!
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StartConclusion
The key to communication is when we act like ourselves, say what we want, do what we want, we are less attached to what others say or do. We are free to act as we want, as are they. When we are not honest with ourselves in this area, and suppress our true feelings, it makes us much more tied up into others' thoughts and actions = Bad News
Flirtology takes the basic steps in social interaction: how to enter a conversation, how to exit, how to read body language, and uses it as a way to help people become comfortable with themselves. You don’t really need to learn how to exit a conversation. You need to learn to trust yourself. So, when you have had enough of the conversation, you feel comfortable telling the other person, ‘it was nice speaking with you, but I have to go now’.
That is what Flirtology does.